| Making it or Breaking it! |
| A travel guide through the journey of love; |
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| Improve your relationship in one hour - |
| Start Reading this Book, 'Making it or Breaking it!' |
Lee Cass, Counsellor, Psychotherapist and Author |
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| You Can Make Your Relationship Work! |
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You can learn about families:
Sex and sexual feelings
Discover who and why you are the way you are
How to choose a partner
How to measure compatibility
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| Be an expert in your relationship |
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Relationship issues
Love and romance |
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How secrets and lies can undermine trust |
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Why do we have relationships? |
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Sexual compatibility |
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How to have more sex |
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About your self esteem |
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Stop being a doormat in your relationship |
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What is love? |
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Falling in love |
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What 'I love you' really means |
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| "This book gave me insight!... |
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Making it or Breaking it!
Published by Boondye Books (Sydney, Australia) is the book written in an easy to read style in the form of a travel guide book. The cover illustrates the 'map' of the journey (the journey being part of the journey of life). |
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| Change your relationship by following the steps in this book... |
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There are signposts for the chapters which give ideas and explanations behind any conflict and confusion in a relationship.
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| 1. Feeling unheard |
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| If someone uses expressions like "I feel like I'm talking to a brick wall", it means they think their communication is going nowhere. They feel ignored. It indicates that a listener might be thinking about other things. They aren't being empathetic and the speaker will think the listener doesn't care about them. |
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| "20 Years Worth of Advice in One Book! ... |
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"Our problems are sort of universal...
J and I have enjoyed your book very much. I read it on the plane over to the UK. If I didn't know you'd written it before... J and I have thought it was written about us! It is comforting to know that our problems are sort of "universal". Thanks. T.B
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Why do we have relationships? |
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What is love? |
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Falling in love |
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What 'I love you' really means |
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Book + Postage everywhere else $39.80Au |
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The book contains Actual Case Histories to show how people Solve issues |
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"She's so cold to me..."
"I hardly see him... |
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Often couples find they are having difficulties talking to each other, feel something is missing, or they feel their partner is a bit cool or distant. One way that couples get to this situation is when they internalise their conversations instead of talking. Couples find themselves unable to voice their concerns to each other after having been together for a while. They feel that their concerns are minor, so they let it go.
"Oh I wish he'd put the dirty washing into the machine. Oh well I won't complain, it's only a small problem".
"Oh no. She's left the dishes in the sink again. Oh well, she's got enough on her plate I guess".
When the couple met they had very strong feelings for each other - feelings of attraction, sexuality and fun, for example:
"Wow, she's so great, I could talk to her all day and night."
"He's just so nice. He's a soul mate - he thinks the same way as I do."
It is ironic that their feelings will ultimately drive them apart if they don't remain in communication.
"I don't know. She's so cold to me now. It's like being with a fridge."
"He comes home. He goes out again. I never see him. I just feel alone."
Each time they don't talk they put a 'brick' in between the two of them until eventually it becomes a 'wall'.
Making it or Breaking it! can assist in dismantling the 'wall' safely.
After a while people get into a pattern where neither party says anything to the other but they internalise their conversation. She thinks to herself:
"I wonder why he's not helping me with the baby. I'm the one who's had her all day." |
He might be thinking:
"I've worked all day and she's not even being nice to me when I get home."
What this couple is doing is supposedly being polite and not making waves. What is really happening, however, is that they have stopped talking. They need to say what they are thinking.
Continued thinking like this for each partner will make them feel resentful and alone in the relationship, and it is these feelings that will keep them apart.
There are work sheets, around 100 cartoons to illustrate the text, and many case histories. There is lots of humour to keep the reading light. There are many stories about the problems and resolutions drawn from the author's life experiences and those of his clients. |
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There are even chapters for when a couple has tried everything and seek clarity on whether to break up or not. And there are suggestions for the different ways of breaking up.
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| If you can't make your relationship work, then learn how to break it and leave happily. |
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The ideal way of breaking up |
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Angry break-ups |
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Peaceful break- ups |
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| And there are ways to break up if you have children: |
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What to tell the children |
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How to use the phone to avoid conflict |
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What the children need |
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